[l-liava-l]

Подключаю mysql к ноде

var connection = mysql.createConnection({
    host: 'localhost',
    user: 'user',
    password: 'pass',
    database: "analgungsta"
});

connection.connect(); //тут оно разбивает мне сердце

error connecting: Error: connect ECONNREFUSED
    at errnoException (net.js:646:11)
    at Object.afterConnect [as oncomplete] (net.js:637:18)
    --------------------
    at Protocol._enqueue (/home/lev/intersango/grubber/node_modules/mysql/lib/protocol/Protocol.js:110:48)
    at Protocol.handshake (/home/lev/intersango/grubber/node_modules/mysql/lib/protocol/Protocol.js:42:41)
    at Connection.connect (/home/lev/intersango/grubber/node_modules/mysql/lib/Connection.js:98:18)
    at Object.<anonymous> (/home/lev/intersango/grubber/grabber.js:13:12)
    at Module._compile (module.js:441:26)
    at Object..js (module.js:459:10)
    at Module.load (module.js:348:32)
    at Function._load (module.js:308:12)
    at Array.0 (module.js:479:10)
    at EventEmitter._tickCallback (node.js:192:41)

Поиск был, что-то находилось, но не получилось

Я пишу код уже часов 17, спасити...!