<html>
<style type="text/css">
td{
padding: 10px;
border: 1px solid red;
}
</style>
<body>
<table id="table">
<tr> <td> </td><td> </td><td> </td> </tr>
<tr> <td> </td><td> </td><td> </td> </tr>
<tr> <td> </td><td> </td><td> </td> </tr>
</table>
<button>кнопка</button>
<script>
const [col,row]=[2,3]
document.querySelector('button').addEventListener('click', function(){
document.querySelector('table').rows[col-1].cells[row-1].style.background = 'red'
});
</script>
</body>
</html>