Все спасибо!! получилось.. результат:
var form=document.forms['myform'];
var numberSelected = 0;
var emptyInput = 0;
for(var i=0;i<form.elements.length;i++)
{ if(form.elements[i].style.background == "#feafc4")
{ numberSelected++; }
}
if (numberSelected == 0) formObj.myButon.disabled = false; else formObj.myButon.disabled = true;