laimas,
<table>
<tr>
<td class="manTd2" id="siM29">
<select class="manFlaGender" name="gender">
<option value="1">Мальчик</option>
<option value="2">Девочка</option>
</select>
</td>
</tr>
</table>
<script>
document.querySelector('select').onchange = function() {
var pol = document.querySelector('#siM29').value;
alert(pol);
alert(document.querySelector('select').value);
}
</script>